How do you say “goodbye”?
How to let go, knowing that it is the last time, the last moment, that the shared laughter, the meals, the trips are over? How to take leave and leave only good memories? You read “It’s your funeral!” by Kathy Benjamin, that’s it, and you go there with a nudge, a wink, and awesome tunes.
You will never get out of this world alive.
Kathy Benjamin thinks we should all remember this. She’s gonna die, you’re gonna die, everyone who breathed in the past is dead, period. So, because you have no choice in this matter, you might as well make your final farewell as personal as possible.
Most of the people before you have had ground burials, but today’s deceased have a choice, says Benjamin. Ground burials aren’t the most environmentally friendly action you can take and, more surprisingly, neither is cremation – although if you do decide on cremation, there are some “creative” things that can be done. be done with your dead self.
Otherwise, you could choose natural landfill or composting. You could become food for trees and plants, or you could be turned into “mud.” Burial at sea can be an option, or going out with a bang, going bling, or being “buried” in space. If you are really passionate about science, you could be plastinated, or you could donate your body to a medical facility or a âbody farmâ. Check local laws before you go wild.
As for your funeral, Benjamin talks about the different religious services that you can have, and ideas for places. Imagine your funeral at your favorite bar or at the bowling alley. Hand out gift bags, have friends sign your casket, and choose funeral tunes that mean something to you in life. Write your own obituary and be sure to share your digital passwords with loved ones. Then leave a legacy, a bench with your name on it, a park or a brick in a stadium. You may be gone, but you will not be forgotten …
By now you already know that “This is your funeral!” is not your usual funeral planner. No, this planner is for the person who’s been through life, catching all the adventures, looking for the next party, and who doesn’t want to go until Last Call is announced.
While the topic is normally quite moody, author Kathy Benjamin puts the fun into the funeral by making readers laugh, much like a nudge that lets us know it’s okay if we don’t necessarily want to. cry next to our crypts. As well as helping out with the smallest details in our personalized mailings, Benjamin writes about other things you may have questions about: looting graves, building your own coffin, what items are in celebrity graves, jazz funerals and how to ask a famous singer to perform when you leave.
This makes it something you can read even when you aren’t planning on going somewhere soon. If you’re dying for a unique book, in fact, take “It’s Your Funeral” and say hello!
âIt’s your funeral! Plan the celebration of a lifetime – before it’s too late âby Kathy Benjamin
circa 2021, Quirk Books $ 16.99 / $ 22.99 Canada 176 pages
Author Kathy Benjamin